My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have a total of 9 kids, 7 of them at home, ranging from 21 to 3 years old. My husband is retired, but still works a new full time job. I handle the finances,we are financially secure. The problem is that my husband is a sports official on his side time. Basketball season begins during the holidays, in which he is gone at least 2 to 3 nights of the week, often staying out late. This is very stressful for me. I am exhausted from taking care of all the kids and the house. I have asked him to please stop refereeing basketball. he says this is his favorite sport and refuses to give it up, in spite of my tears and pleads. He says the more I tell him not to do it the more he is willing to fight me. I am so upset, I don't feel anything but tired. I am sure he is not cheating, the money he makes out of refeering 3 sports he brings to me. I doubt his love since he is willing to give up our marriage for his own cause. Please help me.
2007-11-28
21:04:13
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