My soon to be ex and i agreed that we just cant live together anymore. Its a 'nice' divorce, no hatred or bitterness, in fact, we still love each other, we just dont work well together anymore. But we cant seem to let each other go. we still say 'i love you' at the end of our phone conversations, we are still intimate when we see each other, we still talk about the whole soul mate thing and if we're meant to be together, we will find our way back to each other. This is so strange to me. Do people do this when they divorce? And pls dont say we might as well stay married, THAT IS NOT AN OPTION, too much damage in the marriage and a long history of it. I just want to let him go alltogether. I feel like if we stay like this, i'll never move on with anyone else, i'll always feel obligated to him. how do i let go and convince him to let go as well?
2007-11-28
14:07:38
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Marriage & Divorce