Hey look so check it out, one of my brother wont' talk to me cause my parents getting divorced and I want to live with my Mom instead of my Dad. And I've tried talking to him before but it's impossible. He lives in FL and he doesn't answer my phone calls, or returns them. What can I do?
2007-11-28 14:06:43 · 4 answers · asked by LC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Divorce is really an ugly thing and can bring out a range of emotions in various family members as a family gets seperated. Sorry to hear that's what you are facing. Give your brother some time. He is processing the disappointment, hurt, frustration, confusion, family loyalties too. Consider writing to him or emailing. Tell him how important it is to stay in touch with him particularly with everything going in the family. Ask him to respect your decision to live with Mum and if possible give the reasons you have chosen to do so. All the very best. I hope you are talking again soon.
2007-11-28 14:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi... divorce causes a lot of emotional turmoil and confused feelings.. and people just don't think straight.. it's not an easy time, that's for sure.
Your brother doesn't realize you are doing what YOU want to do and what you feel is best for you... he is living with his dad, and that is what HE wants to do....
There is nothing wrong with making your own, personal choices. Your brother has some idea he needs to control yours... it's not right...
I'm sure your brother will realize you're important in his life and will make up with you sometime in the future.
Meanwhile, take care of yourself, and keep doing what you are doing!
2007-11-28 14:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. that's exactly it. do not worry.
he'll come around. for a while my brother owuldn't talk to me, about some serious family problems, we live in the same house!!! he came around though. just give another two weeks, let him gain control over his feelings, he could be stressed just like i'm sure u are. call ur dad and beg him to make ur brother talk to u, that's only if he still doesn't want to talk to you after a week or two. trust me, he will get over it, ur his sister, he loves you.
2007-11-28 14:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
hell come around soon if he relaly cares about you
and its not ur fault u want to live with ur mom
2007-11-28 14:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by Stacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋