I'm 43 y.o. - married 19 yr- 5 awesome kids! My wife and I haven't had sex in 2 yr much resentment. Love is gone. I own a business make $500,000 + she's a homemaker. We own all the "good - material" things - large house, cars. I was brought up poor - could take it or leave it / she brought up with $$. She spends $ faster than I can keep up. She doesn't spend on herself but the house, kids, etc. Her whole life revolves around spending money and working around the house. I don't feel comfortable sitting down in my house because my wife wants me working when I'm home. She complains the kids overwhelm her although all are in school all day. I used to run around like a chicken w/o a head trying to do everything to pls her - nothing seemed good enough - I'm not a handyman but p/u, do dishes, clean and keep the kids away from her. She won't do counseling. I've stopped being helpfuI. can't live this way but want to be w/ my kids. wife also makes enemies & will make things nasty for me / kids
2007-11-26
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