Why do you think we have to bullsh!t one another so much in life? I think we are less happier in life, because honesty is not valued anymore. It seems like if we aren't lying to one other, then we almost feel uncomfortable. For example:
If a guy asks a girl for her number: Why cant she just say, "I'm not interested" or "Thanks anyway", instead of lying about a boyfriend that doesn't exist or some other non truth?
How about when guys say that they want women to be more real and honest with them, then when she comes out and says, "You know what, I really want to make love to you tonight" or hits on him, he considers it too forward and loses interest because he doesn't have to chase her like a dog. Maybe it's intimidation. I'm not sure, but we apply all of these "Rules of the game" when we don't need to. Society and men have convinced women that we are tramps if we sleep with a man on the 1st date and we shouldn't call right away etc. Whereas, men can without judgment. Why the games???
2007-11-05
03:26:42
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