progress, it hasn't been much. He's only takn me on a date 4 x (most of which I had to ask), walks ahead of me, & usually doesn't hold my hand. He refuses to hold hands during prayer @ church, and won't even let me kiss him. When he's w/ his buddies, nearly ignores me instead of putting his arm around me or something. Once or 2x, I went to sit next to him, & instead of welcoming me, he said, "There's another chair right there!" He never says, "hey, I'd like to see you tonight. What time are you free?" Just "Are we hangin' out today?" or "Were you wanting to hang out, or no? The guys want to get together, is that ok?" He always asks my permission instead of making a decision indicating, "I love you & I'd like to see YOU." He is a very sweet, loving, sensitive guy with no clue. He's also 24, @ home, has a degree, but isn't really seeking a job. His MOM pays his bills (w his $) We really love each other, I know he cares, but no matter WHAT I say, he just doesn't get it, & I feel slighted
2007-11-05
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