Sis & I found out recently tt dad had an affair with a colleague last yr, but we decided to keep quiet abt it. Had a major argument with dad few days back & he made some personal attacks, so i mentioned abt his affair out of anger. Problem is, mum had no idea before this. Regretted it the moment it came out of my mouth & thus told her very vague details, leading her to think it might not be true.
I have the emails tt dad exchanged with the woman & know for sure they had an affair, but when mum asked me, i just came up with some random stuff, & told her to believe what my dad tells her.
But the damage is done, and i can no longer look at my dad the same way again. He also told me 'thanks for breaking up your parents' relationship', and told my aunt tt me and my sis has no respect for him at all.
If i wanted to break em up, i wld haf showed my mum the emails. but she still doesnt know the truth, n i'm torn btwn a responsibility 2wards her, & a responsibility 2wards the family.
2007-10-18
21:16:16
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