My wife is one of the most beautiful women that i have ever met and i love her to death. She had a baby nearly 30 months ago and still dawns a lil baby fat. Now shes really not out of shape but she like 10-15lbs over where SHE wants to be (tho you couldnt tell if you saw). Shes really sensitive and self conscious about it and i dont want to upset her nor do i want to seem like im displeased wit da way she look eitha. But i do want her to be happy and i believe dat if she loses da weight than she wont be as self concious about her body and overall more confident. Da truth be told, im content wit where she at but i can see dat she doesnt exactly feel as sexy as she really is,regardless of how much i tell her. She thinks im just sayin dat becus dats what i think she wanna hear. I do feel dat she wants me to actually come out and say "i want you to lose weight" but im not sure. Plus im scared sh*tless, for real, i ASSUME she wants me to say it, but dont want to hurt her. Any suggestions
2007-09-01
16:52:54
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Marriage & Divorce