I'm pretty sensitive and always seem to imagine that people are mad at me if, for example, I don't hear from them. Sometimes this causes me to write people off.
For example, an old friend has become distant with me over the past 2 years...pretty much since she started dating this guy. They are now engaged and she invited me to the wedding. I made up an excuse because I feel too hurt to go since we hardly ever talk (maybe every 5 months or so) and I just don't feel close to her any more.
However, I also don't want to be so "picky" about what I expect from people that I end up with no friends.
Should I go to the wedding? How do you maintain a relationship when you don't hear from someone for long stretches of time?
2007-08-29
16:54:58
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quirkyfunnyone
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