Who else is sick of having their relationships on their partner's terms, and not theirs? I am so tired of it - it is what, when, how, and where HE wants - why can't it be my turn?
I don't know what to do anymore. He is a really great guy 80% of the time - everything I could want in a partner. Then, he will turn around and be completely inconsiderate, even rude to me - wanting everything his way - and not caring how I feel about it. It is good to have your needs met, but it seems like his needs are the only ones he considers - not mine, at all.
I don't know what to do - I do want to be with him, but how do I make these terms more equitable? How can I stand up for and get what I want out of this?
Here is a more concrete example. We spent the night Fri. and day through early evening together on Sat. He was awesome - absolutely great. Sat. night he went to a party (guys only) at his friend's house, and was supposed to call me on Sun. to get together Sun. evening.
2007-08-27
02:57:25
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HooliganGrrl
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Marriage & Divorce