I am married to an active-duty Marine. We've been together 2 years, married for almost a year. The past 6 months have been extremely rocky. Every 2-3 months we have a huge fight that brings us to the brink of divorce.
He rarely wants to go out together anymore, unless it's at HIS friend's place. He criticizes me all the time about my job and going to school. I feel like he tosses me aside while he's watching tv, or playing on the computer, until he wants sex or my attention. Has he lost respect for me because we're married, and he knows I can't just "dump" him and walk off whenever I want?
He doesn't allow me access to his bank account (which holds OUR money), and I have no idea how much is spent on what. I pay 50% of our bills, which takes up half my monthly earnings. He gets paid 4x more than what I earn monthly (I work part time and am attending college). He still criticizes me, saying I am not saving enough money, etc. Well how can I ?
2007-08-25
17:13:13
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dreamin delux
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Marriage & Divorce