First off, I'm a black male that was dating an Asian (Chinese) female. I went to her house one day (extremely nervous) and met her mother. My ex-girl had two younger sisters that both had white boyfriends. As I talked with her mother, I noticed that she had this stern, determined look on her face to not smile or show any kind of emotion. She asked me some offensive stereotypical questions, yet I answered them politely. When I told her I was in college she just said "Really? That's nice." She then asked my ex to go into the kitchen with her. They argued for about 10 minutes but I didn't pay attention until I heard her mother's EXACT words: "Why you don't go with white guy?! You could at least find Chinese!" I was shocked. My girl came out of the kitchen with a forced smile, and then we left. The next day, she told me "we should just be friends". Because I still like her, I agreed. Now she goes with a white guy, and I feel SOOO crushed. Should I still be friends with her?
2007-08-23
02:45:29
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