We have been together for about a year, she refuses to settle down anywhere, and now is in a position where she has to place to go. They have 5 daughters together, and he claims that he let her move in so I wont have to put my life on hold to babysit. (He's in the Army) The problem is, it feels like they get along better than he and I do. She takes off to go see him at work. She makes it out like I'm hateful to her children. She won't talk to me unless he is in the room, and when he isnt, she's mean and hateful towards me. He won't take my feelings into consideration over this. He thinks I am overreacting and defends everything by telling me they can be "civil" to eachother. I'm ok with that, but I think its a little too much. Ever since she moved in, things have gone downhill, and I'm scared for my relationship. He filed for divorce, recently, and claims that there is no need to divorce her if it wasnt for me. What is going on here?
2007-08-18
05:30:01
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Devinn
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Marriage & Divorce