I have a 3 1/2 year old girl and a 1 1/2 year old boy. When my daughter was about my son's age, their father and I planned our son. We divorced and I am now remarried to my best friend of almost 11 years now (my, time flies!). We were wed on May 13th of this year. I've been getting the urge, almost a need, to have another baby but I know I'm not ready for one and would like to take more time for my son to grow. He was born with IS, and thank God he was one of the 10% to outgrow it and be completely normal. I'm afraid of having another baby with IS because I don't even know how I could have caused it to my son. The doctor's never found a cause for it, and I keep thinking it's something I did, although they told me it's not. Why do I keep getting this urge that is so strong? I don't want to take the chance of having another one with IS, but I just feel strongly that I want another one. Yeah, I'm confused. Can somebody help me figure this out?
2007-08-08
18:34:38
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