A guy I dated said he thinks I'm beautiful and sexy but he's not attracted to me. What does he mean by this? Are there different types of attraction? Is he talking about attraction to my personality or romantic attraction? In the past, he also used the terms no romantic spark, no connection and no chemistry. He also said that he is not in love with me. When someone uses the word attraction in this context, are they talking about romantic attraction? We've also had sex on numerous occassions throughout many years. He said guys have sex with girls they are not attracted to all the time. I'm confused by how he uses the word attraction. I've always thought people use the word attraction to mean physical or sexual attraction but he seems to be using the word in a different way. When I asked him what he meant by attraction, he said it means the same thing as interpersonal chemistry. I'm so confused!
2007-08-08
08:09:02
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