I've known my fiancé for 8 years. He's the love of my life. 2 years ago I moved out of state to be with him. 2 months later I found out that he cheated on me a month before I moved to be w/him. I was devastated, so was he. Not only am I a virgin waiting for marriage, but we have a strong Christian relationship as well. It's been a year now & we worked through a lot & got engaged. I look back & realize the act was completely out of character for him & I feel that he has changed for the better. He's gone to counseling (his idea), he's read books, he is 100% honest with me about everything, & makes it completely known that he wants to be with only me forever. We have never had any other problems in our relationship with trust or honesty. We're getting married next year & I just want to know, is it really possible for people to change? I feel like there's so much out there about chronic cheaters but if it happened once, & they repented & owned up to it, is it still foolish to trust again?
2007-07-16
08:48:39
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Marriage & Divorce