If I am in a serious relationship with a divorced man who has children ages 3 and 5, is it wrong to want to meet his ex wife? I have no problems with her. I do not feel threatened by her nor do I want her to feel threatened by me. Their problems of the past can be between her and my bf and do not want it to affect her and me. Though it will be awkard, I'd like to lay some things out about her expectations and where I am able to stand with the children. I want her to know I am not trying to take her place and will respect her wishes as to what she and their father want for the children. Is this inappropriate or how should I approach this with her? I want as little drama as possible, because she is and always will be their mother, regardless. I don't know if she'll be offended by this or what else I should inlcude in talking with her. Also, should we include the man in here? What do you all think about this?
2007-07-16
08:52:01
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Marriage & Divorce