As you know, from the above message, I want a boyfriend. Most people will probably say, "Why do you want a boyfriend? So you can show off at school??" Well, I'll answer that right now...No!!! I want a boyfriend so that I have someone to talk to besides my girlfriends. The thing is, I don't know where I can find one. If you have any ideas at all, they're greatly appreciated. Thank you~
2007-07-16 08:51:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would recommend that you make more guy friends if you are tired of your girlfriends. What kinds of things do you enjoy? There's almost always a group/club for everything. I can think of no better way to meet people that that way.
2007-07-24 06:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Andre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...we're not apples, you know. You don't just go out and "find" one. Try just being "friends" with a guy and see where it goes. You can have many "guy" friends and if the chemistry is right, you'll find one of them becomes your boyfriend. If it takes years, so what? You said you only wanted someone to talk to besides your "girl friends", right? Also, you'll find that you can talk about things to "guy friends" more easily at times than you can to your "boyfriend". Why? Because you're not worried about your guy friends thinking you're silly or stupid as much as you worry about how your boyfriend sees you. So enjoy the company of a guy without feeling the need to make him your boyfriend.
If that doesn't work for you, then try aisle six at Walmart :)
2007-07-23 22:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better find something else to worry about. Get a pet they are good listeners and dont take much (emotionally) I've gathered that your 13 and if you thing getting a boyfriend only allows talking thing again because when his other head rears I hope you can listen in return. If you dont understand the message behind the message then you're not mature enough for this topic.
2007-07-24 08:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by sexylovelet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. I wanted a bf so badly. But i was looking too hard. The best thing to do, is realise that you dont NEED a bf. Right when i stoped looking, I found my now bf or 15 months.
You may not like it but the best thing to do is stop looking. Just go about your life. Flirt with random guys. Strick a conversation with a guy your age at school. or at clubs if you are old enough. That is how i met my bf.
2007-07-16 08:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there no boys in your town? Start talking to guys where ever you go. The movies, the mall, a gaming place. Browse around and smile then say Hi. Ask him about something that coordinates with the place you are at. If you are at the movies ask if he's seen ---- and how he liked it. Ask what school he'll be going to. When you're in school talk to the boys around you. Don't follow them just make casual conversation. Soon you'll feel more at ease and ready to make that move to boyfriend with one of them.
2007-07-24 06:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all don't seem to desperate, that not lady like and you don't need a boyfriend as a confidant, you can also have a best guy friend. But sometimes a boyfriend will come in handy.get to know alot of guys and talk to them first , see who canhold secrets and who will run ans tell their boys.
2007-07-24 06:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try too hard. You will find one. I don't understand these kids today... They are all ready to experiment with having boyfriends, before you know it, it will lead to (unprotected) sex. Try to enjoy being young and keep your innocence for as long as you can. You are not missing anything right now. Focus on your school. Get your education before you start thinking about boys. -Good luck.
2007-07-23 19:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by Irene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me girl, you cannot go looking for a bf. It will just drive you crazy! He will come, and when he does, you will be so glad that you found him. But you really can't rush it, just know that he is out there and that he will come at the perfect time!
2007-07-16 08:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what u think until u r in a relationship, u have to deal with doubts, confussion, no it is not a bad thing to want a guy, i used, to but it is not all cream, it can be tough, u will have expectation, he will have expectations, if u want a guy, go out, but dont be desparate, guys dont like desparate girls, be sociable, look good, have fun.
2007-07-23 21:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, stop being so desperate, I'm sure you'll get a b/f soon, who knows he be right in front of you and you don't know it.
2007-07-16 08:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Kala C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋