There's this guy... He is totally sweet & funny... and I like him so much... He's a GOOD BOY. It has nothing to do with looks, because in everyone's eyes, he's really not that cute... everyone i tell thinks that I could "do better," but there's no one else i want but him...
I've known him for 4 or 5 months... I've always felt something for him. He's just so easy to talk to, and he makes me laugh. One time, this woman saw us flirting, and actually told us that we should date!! He said, "Her? No way, noo no noooo," but he was sorta smiling when he said it. I was hurt, but my friends told me that guys sometimes pretend they don't like girls, when they do. So, we've seen each other at work an average of 1-2 times per week, for maybe 10 minutes per time...
Well, last week, he started dating this girl. She is awful. She has a nasty personality, is manipulative, fake, and is just out to hurt people. She's a controlling liar, and has tried to mess with me more than once... when she was supposed to be my friend... and, she's no beauty queen. Her outisides match her insides, basically. People always comment on how gross she looks...
I was so hurt when I found out taht they started dating. How could he want her and not me? I'm a nice person, I don't hurt people... and *if* he was superficial, I'm 20x better looking than her!
What do I do? I want to tell him how I feel, but if he doesn't feel the same way, he'll tell the girl he's with, and she'll humiliate me. I just can't tell if he likes me. I feel bad flirting with him, when he has a gf, and I try to stop myself, but everytime I'm around him, I can't help but smile and laugh. The worst part is, is that now he has a new shift, and it'll be weeks before I see him, unless he comes in to visit HER.
Help me? What do I do? Am I in love?
2007-07-01
17:35:59
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