I'm out of a long-term relationship and I know I have to go out and meet people rather than dwell on the past. The people I meet, we hang out casually (not "casual sexually", guys...casually). I'm not ready for a new relationship and I make that known, but the people must see something in me or what I do/say that just makes them glom on like I'm "the one" or something. I would LOVE to find that person again, but I'm not ready. I can't seem to heal and get out in the world because I can't go hang out with someone without them, like, wanting a future together..no matter their age. What makes so many people see "their future" in me? I'm successful, but not set. I'm not ugly. I care for people, but I'm also fun. I just want to go hang out not alone sometimes, but it seems that being alone keeps me from hurting more people, so I feel trapped. HELP! Maybe it's the fact that I DON'T show too much interest and I'm trying to be fine by myself that makes me a "challenge"?
2007-07-01
06:39:48
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rlfesty
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Singles & Dating