My wife and I have been having problemd for a bout 6 months.
We've been trying to conceive or adopt, have had many stresses and generally have not been getting along on this subject.
Recently, I 've noticed her becoming secretive, distant, our sex life has suffred, we been bickering and I became suspicious. So, I installed a spyware program on our computer and was able to gain access into her e-mail.
I discovered correspondances with a couple of her girlfriends where she was discussing a crushon a married co-worker.
I admitted what I had done and how I gathered the information and confronted her. While there has been no action on this crush, there has been a flirtation that has gone on for a coupe months.
She feels that she has done nothing wrong by having this crush/flirtation and feels I have crossed a line. I contend that while my behavior is certainly worthy of an apology, I fear for my marriage (which is in trouble) and am just trying to gain answers.
Am I over reacting?
2007-06-25
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