I just found out that a dear friend's husband just died. Now, I didn't like the man at all - he was a lousy drunken bum who leeched off her for 30 years, and when I was 14 he tried to touch me in a very inappropriate way, which I never told his wife about. That was 21 years ago, and I don't see the point of bringing it up to her now, since nothing happened, but that's not the point of this question. I don't really want to go to his funeral because of my severe dislike of the man, but feel I have to for her sake. I'm just not sure what to do here. I certainly can't honor his life, but I don't feel like I can desert Val right now, either, when she needs her friends. I'm torn. Can anyone help me, please?
I know this isn't really religious or spiritual in nature, but all my friends are here, so please don't report me. I genuinely need some help on this one.
2007-06-22
11:17:01
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ReeRee
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