I can't trust her anymore. She lies then I snoop. What I find she 'claims' to be plants, but then she lies again and the whole thing keeps going...
My wife of near 7yrs (together 15 total) asked for a trail separation a month ago. She said she'd been unhappy w/ our marriage for almost a year. I wasn't supportive enough at home (cleaning, kids, money) I went through a rough patch where I even called myself a loser. She wanted us to be able to see other people (yes sex too).
The next day I found out she'd been talking to a man behind my back for 2mth (min 3 calls a day, every day c.20min-1hr). She claims not to be sleeping w/ him, but she's lied often to go to his house, she's slept there more than once (claiming only after our separation) She wont give up this 'friendship' that continues to hurt our marriage. In less than 3mth this man has become the closest person in her lifeHer friends tell me she has some stuff to work out, but she's lied for them to sneak out to see 'friends' too
2007-04-20
15:31:56
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Sidney B
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Marriage & Divorce