I have impregnated my g/f. She is about 4 months pregnant. She will not allow me to go to Doctors appointments. She lies to me about when they are. She is currently unemployed, living with an acolholic with multiple history of domestic violence. Just tonight he twised (her son from another relationship) his grandsons arm while drunk. I was gonna call the cops but everyone told me they would deny anything happened, so I was afraid to call and look bad in the laws eyes. I just want to protect her son and our future child. I have a job, my own place, my own insurance. She is bi-polar and has not been on her meds for over 2 years. I want both I and the mother to be apart of this childs life but she is already pushing me out by lying and dening when appointments are. What can I do to ensure that I can have my child? I do not want to be a part time father. I dont want to exclude her from the childs life, but since I feel she is already excluding me from our future child I want to make certain I am a part of it. Im looking for advice on what I can do now to be a part of my childs life (not part time), but also ensure that the mother and I have (at least)equal parts of loving this new child.
2007-04-05
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