He has two kids, I have 0. We're both celebate until marriage. He wants to wed right away, and I want to wait. I want to have the engagement, experience the joy of planning a wedding, and most important, get to know him better so I'll know I made the right decision! He says I'm being selfish because since we know that we're gonna get married ANYWAY, why not just do it now? So that we can start "doin what married folks do", as well as so that his children will have a mom. I know he's motivated because of those reasons, but I just don't have that same motivation. I love my life as is (quiet and drama free), and I dont feel the need to rush into anything so quickly. He's becoming increasingly impatient with me. Hes a GREAT guy in all other ways, and I dont wanna lose him, but then again, I dont wanna rush either! Am I the selfish one???
2007-04-03
06:04:47
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Marriage & Divorce