i have NEVER had my period, & i am thinking about having sex. dont tell me not to cuz im too young cuz i dont care about that. i just wanna know if i can have sex before i have my 1st period (& can i still get pregnant then?)
2007-04-03 06:06:59 · 32 answers · asked by i make hell look cold 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im not going to for a guy, self-esteem, or for wat people think of me. i want to becuz i want to (i dont gots a bf so no chance of him dumping me, cuz all im lookin for is a nite in bed, immature prolly, do i care?no)
2007-04-03 06:24:41 · update #1
Well... you you should be thinking about NOT having sex....
BUT... I do understand.
No... I do not beieve you coulod get prengant... but you still need to use protection. you cans till get an STD.
AND. Sperm can live in you for a few days.
Wouldnt it be awful luck if you didnt use protection and you got your period the next day???
If you do decide to become sexuly active, please use protection.
May I suggest calling your local planned Parenthood. they may have better answers for you as far as you being physicly ready for sex.
P.P is always confidentail. They can;t even call you back, unless you give them prior premission.
take care
2007-04-03 06:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by ErinJean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will ovulate about two weeks before you get your first period. Since you've never had a period you have no way of knowing when that will be. You could get pregnant. It isn't very likely, but it is possible. You could also get one of any number of diseases. Some (like chlamydia) can cause infertility, some (like AIDS) can kill you and others (like herpes) have no cure and will cause you problems for the rest of your life. Know what you are getting into before you start having sex. You don't mention how old you are, but if you haven't started your period, then you are physically not mature and you shouldn't have sex. The fact that you say you don't care that you are too young tells me that you aren't emotionally mature enough to be having sex either. Any time you have sex you risk getting pregnant. Are you ready to be someone's mother?
2007-04-03 07:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN GET PREGNANT!
Just because you have not had a period yet does not mean that your body isn't possibly ready to ovulate just as you are to have sex. If you must do this, go to your doctor and get birth control AND make the boy/guy use a condom. The condom is a must. There are diseases that you can get, some that can kill you, others that will interfere with your chances of having a baby when you are older and decide to have one.
I do not know how old you are. I will say this though, if you have to ask this question, you really are too young, too immature to make this decision.
2007-04-03 06:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, on the off chance that you're not a troll...
Wait until you're older. You're too damned young. You're risking infection for sure. I don't know if you can get pregnant or not, but that's an answer I'd want before I took the chance. If you think that this is a way to show everyone how mature you are, think again. Maturity means making smart decisions, not making people think you're mature.
If you're trying to please a guy, forget it. Guys at that age think with their gonads, not their brains. The only way to keep him interested is to keep having sex with him. And pretty soon, he'll decide that that little redhead a few lockers away from him is cuter than you'll ever be.
Wait - you'll be happier you did.
2007-04-03 06:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't!
Ok, technically, you can, but you shouldn't. Sounds like you must be very young. Sex is something reserved for adults, because the feelings it brings on are very deep and often can have tragic and long-lasting consequences. Think about your self-esteem, what your friends and classmates are going to think of you if you do it. Also, do you realize the first time you have sex it's not going to be fun. It will be painful. Is it really worth it to you? The risks include not only pregnancy, but sexually transmitted diseases, not to mention the pain of perhaps bonding with someone and thinking you're in love, and then finding out later they only used you, or even if they did think they loved you, it's not true love, and eventually you will have to go through the heartache of rejection. Is all that really worth it? Why do you want to have sex? Ask yourself that.
2007-04-03 06:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can have sex before your first period. Having your period will not change your vagina. If it can accomodate a penis before your period, it will still be able to accomodate one after your period.
Yes, you can still get pregnant. You may not have had a period yet, but you may already have mature ovum (eggs) ready for fertilization in your ovaries or fallopian tubes. Also, you should know that sperm can survive in your body from three to five days, more or less.
Now that I have answered your questions, it is time for the anti-sex sermon. If you have not had your period yet, you are obviously too young to be having sex.
Please don't be promiscuous, you are not a whore, please don't become one. Virginity is a precious and valuable thing, something to be cherished and saved.
2007-04-03 08:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
homegirl you need to slow yo roll you dont know how many diseases flyin around you sayin that you wanna have sex right now ut when you get pregnant or get aids a non curable thing then you gone be wishin you wouldnt have had sex. yes you can still get pregnant and takin care of a baby at yo age really aint easy. are you gone drop out of school and take care of it no you gone need mama are daddy. MAMA AND DADDY AINT GONE BE THERE FOREVER here is some good advice dont just go out and have sex with someone find that right guy and if you can wait till you get married because all the boy gone say is IT AINT MINE.
2007-04-03 08:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Angelica H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can get pregnant.
You don't know when your cicles will start, what if its already sterted and you have sex before knowing.
The bleeding its a the start o f the cicle, but for a cicle to start another one needs to end.
Also I don't know how old are you and Im not going to judge you, just give you a friendly advice: If you are too young and your reproductory organs are not yet fully developed you could get hurt, not just the breaking of the hymen, maybe the ripping of the skin beetwen your anus and your vagina if the penis its too big.
Sex its a wonderful experience and if you take it on a rush, you might get hurt fisically and emotionally
2007-04-03 07:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is YES. The reason is because an egg could be released already from an ovary and the sperm ejaculated from having sex could fertilize it before your body discards it. (When your body gets rid of an unfertilized egg, it is having a period.) Does that make sense? In other words, you could be about to have your period and you wouldn't know it but it could get fertilized from having sex and then you would be pregnant. If you must do this, please use a condom.
2007-04-03 06:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by ggd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not even had your first period, than you are too friggin young to be even THINKING about having sex. I wish you was my daughter and asked me some mess like that. I will bring Chastity belts back in style in the 21st century...after I light a fire to your tail with my belt.
Yes you could get pregnant!!! DUH! See that right there tells you you need to leave it alone!
I am prolly going to get thumbs down for this but I really don't give a flying rat's behind. There are far too many young girls these days who are mothers and who have had more STDs than I have-who are already living with HIV and AIDS.
GRRRRR!!!
2007-04-03 06:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by MamiZorro2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋