I have been dating the same young woman for a few months (4) now. We have not made any type of comitment - I am not exclusive either but far from a player. The problem is whenever we go out the cell phone buzzes about 20 times and it is always her sister or cousin (wink). I don't ask she tells me. Additionally, I never get Friday or Saturday dates and when I do they almost always end around 9:ish. My phone calls are always short and if something spontaneous is planned then I can count on a headache, or a cold, or something. I'm no fool this woman has classic signs of a being a player. Now to flip the script she does have a large family some I have even met, and when I try to diminish my significance she is always to the contrary, and she seem insecure about me. So am I just paranoid, is my spider sense wrong. She may not be a player but she has all the signs. So, do I just go along and play the roll of a "Mark" or do I run the risk and ask the question and alienate her.
2007-03-23
22:54:00
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