i like this girl and i feel she might be playing with me, i want to ask her out but i don't want to look like idiot. My friend told me that, that girl and her friends were something about me and laughing.. so.. i am not sure what to do now. but we been smiling at each other almost like a month and talked once. How do i find out that she really like me or not?? do i need like impress her or just be myself ???
2007-03-23 22:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by shone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simply put: if being yourself doesn't impress her, she's not right for you.
2007-03-23 22:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by naohddool2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have reason to think she's playing you, chances are, she is. But you have to develop a thick skin. So what if she turns you down? Shrug and ask the cute girl right next to her out. If you make it into something that's not a big deal, then it's not a big deal. If you like her, ask her out.
Don't try to impress her, don't try to buy her (like gifts), don't try to be extra nice to her. None of these will win her over. It's either a yes or a no. If it's a yes, then it's already a go, you just have to ask her. If it's a no then flying her to Paris for lunch and bending over backwards to help her fix her computer won't do anything, you'll just become her new best friend, and get to hear about all these other guys that she's got the hots for.
2007-03-24 06:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have good looks and she might be attracted to your looks, but come on you dont want those short lived relationships just because of lust. For a girl to truly love a guy, for himself, for what he is, she needs time. Even if she showed interest at the beginning, dont be mislead.
2007-03-24 06:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. See wht happens. If she is playing wth then pretend u were playing wth her too. If u cant do these things then avoid her completely
2007-03-24 06:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by Naz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you can find out is by asking her out! what have you got to lose? if she says no then act cool and don't let it bother you! but it sounds to me like she likes u very much! :)
2007-03-24 05:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by youdidnotjustsaythat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go to be in it to win it -go for it -if you don't ask you don't get- if you have to impress her is it worth it be yourself- and see were it takes you
2007-03-24 06:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and then suck it up and ask her out. the worst thing that could happen is she says no... is that really so bad?
2007-03-24 05:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jerrica Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your favourate pet has just died. Always works.
2007-03-24 06:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try askin her thru some of her frnds ....i mean indirectly...
2007-03-24 06:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and if she doesn't like it, she doesn't deserve your attention.
2007-03-24 06:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by TotalShopaholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋