My mother has emotional problems since childhood, she tried to be a good mother, but she is critical, bitter, fault finding, lies, pits my siblings against eachother, brings up stuff from our past and holds us in hock for favors she has done us in the past. Nothing a mother would not do for her kids.She sends us letters telling us how bad we are, how we let her down, and how rotten we are and is not going to leave anything to us in her will, we dont want anything, and we told her this. we only wanted her love and approval, we never got it. She brings me to tears with her hurtful, unforgiving critical ways, I try to be a good daughter and forgive and forget, but Im 48 now, & she is still slamming me & hurting me emotionally, making me feel im less than a person, She has eroded my self esteem, She has no realtionship with anyone cause of her actions I dont think God wants me to be a doormat for abuse, Ive suffered my whole life, I pray for her, what would God want me to do ?
2007-03-12
18:46:47
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