I have a coworker that I get along with really well. We have the same sense of humour and the same ideals and opinions, so we talk all the time at work. But that's it! We've only socialized once outside of work, and it was totally harmless. I have e-mailed him on the weekend two times and called him at home once in a year of working together, and it was always because we needed to talk about something work related that couldn't wait until the next business day. The relationship is totally innocent.
However, his wife seems to think otherwise. When she comes by, she is either cold towards me or ignores me. He has apologized before for the way she treats me, so I know I'm not imagining this! Also, she always seems to go out of her way to subtly let me know that she doesn't plan on sharing her husband. (She's very clingy, and my coworker has said that she's not like this at home)
What can I do to show his wife that I'm not interested and that she doesn't need to be concerned?
2007-03-11
18:42:30
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