Honestly, guys what do you look for in a girl. Please be honest.
2007-03-11 18:42:00 · 12 answers · asked by Brenna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends upon the person. Myself I look for a strong woman, someone that is confidant and independent. I like women who take care of themselves. Someone that is not ashamed of them self or their body. She should know the rules of the game and know how to flirt, be sexy, and also be funny. I absolutely do NOT like girls that are too insecure or that are flakey. I think that everyone should have a passion in life, something that drives them as it makes you that much more desirable. Someone that I can relate to. Obviously there has to be some chemistry, I'm not going to go out with someone I'm not attracted to, but really I'd rather have an cute girl with an amazing personality than a knockout with all the charm of a boiled cabbage.
Some people might like the exact opposite of what I like too. Just remember that people of the same maturity level usually end up together. So if you're not getting the kind of person you like, realize you may need to do a little work on yourself, it always pays off.
2007-03-11 18:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Waddy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good Question...
I really believe that a girl's personality is a wonderful gift. Is she funny, caring, witty, etc. It is not always about how a girl looks on the outside, but how beautiful she is on the inside. Some of the most beautiful women externally are extremely ugly on the inside.
I also look at her heart, her emotions, her aspirations, her inspirations, etc. I really like a girl to be herself, her own person...it is okay to take advice from her friends, but let her heart influence her decision. Honestly, the best part of a girl is her eyes, because they tell stories about how special and beautiful she really is. And the more I talk to her, the more I get to know about her...
2007-03-12 01:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honestly, many times its the appearance to initially attract a dude to a girl, but thats not always the case. Sumtimes if a guy gets to know a girl he'll eventually become attracted. Honestly to me, i look for a funny person who can carry on a convo wit me. Not only that but also someone who can make me feel special and brings me up when im feeling down.
2007-03-12 01:49:14 · answer #3 · answered by ummm.... 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends what kind of guy you're asking. It would most likely be true the other way around. Not all girls look for one prototype of a guy.
Personally, I look for beauty, personality, brains. Note: That's not the order of importance but that IS the order of how I get to like a girl. Beauty doesn't mean that she has to look like a model. She has to look at least average. Personality and intelligence levels would vary. It's chemistry beyond that point.
2007-03-12 01:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It depends what the guy wants.
If he wants sex, then he wants a girl who seems like an easy target to get into bed, and he'll have his own standards on whether or not she needs to be especially attractive.
For a relationship, there could be hundreds of things guys look for. There's no simple answer.
2007-03-12 01:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by D L 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Depends on what we are looking for at the moment, something to please me for the night or something to tease me for the night or a few days, maybe something with some please, tease, and some trust cuz if I can't trust ya you don't fall in the other category
2007-03-12 01:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Compa Migue 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Beautiful legs!
2007-03-12 20:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
how the girl carries her self. her personality. how she treats others and how smart she is. that's what i look for. beauty fades and dumb is forever.
we also have to have some type of chemistry.
2007-03-12 01:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by twan 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
someone who u can talk 2, who u can laugh with, who is a pillar of trust, whos sympathetic, who can cook, who isnt lazy, whos loyal, who's smart, whos passionate about sex, who is polite.
all in all a lady on the street and a feak in the bedroom
2007-03-12 01:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Confidence, good attitude, decent looks, oral skills and intelligence.
2007-03-12 01:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by SuperKdog 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋