Why cant i say it?

Question

I realy love my bf but i just cant seem to get myself to say it
I would think it and it would feel like im gona to burst if i dont say it to him soon but still i just cant open my mounth and say it why?

Answer 1

You aren't ready to say it. When you are, it happens. I've only said it to one person in life. (in a relationship) That's a real feeling and unless you are really feeling it and ready to say it, it's not going to happen. Some people say it so much that it comes out easy for them whether they mean it or not. But for some it's alot harder because when we say it it's real. It will come out when you are ready...just give yourself sometime.

Answer 2

Maybe he feels the same way but he is scared to tell you. Sometimes when the other person doesn't feel the same way it can ruin the friendship. Maybe you could write him a little letter telling him? Or just blurt it out. He probably already knows you like him and is just waiting for you to say it! Good Luck!

Answer 3

You can't say it because you're afraid that he won't say it back and that he doesn't love you too. How long have you been with your boyfriend? I need to know that before i can tell you what to do. I think that maybe you should just wait awhile and see if he says it to you first. If he doesn't then you tell him. Do something really romantic with him and maybe he'll say it first.

Answer 4

its powerful to say and personally, i would be afraid of how the other would react, or how it might affect the relationship. maybe the thought of building everything up to this moment was the best part, and now that you express how you really feel, that anticipation wont be there anymore.

best of luck, but dont worry, if you really love him...say it sweetie!