The woman my father is engaged to I absolutely detest. From the start, I admit I didn't really give her a chance. Then, on the second night of meeting her, I opened up, and she ignored me. Since that time, almost a year ago, my siblings convinced me to try to be kind and get to know her more.
A few months ago, on the night I finally decided I was ok with it (she was his girlfriend then) she tried to parent me, what we agreed that she would not do, and then she started yelling that I was in the way of her "date night." (This was in my house, by the way.) My dad was standing there, and didn't really help.
I'm frustrated and hurt and angry that he's marrying her. We also then have to move much farther away than my home town.
Am I being selfish for not accepting her, or not, and what should I do in this situation?
2007-03-08
13:58:18
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Marriage & Divorce