I asked my husband if he ever wakes up in the middle of the night horny and desire to make love to me, he promptly replied with a "no"? His reasons being: he doesnt wake up, although he wakes up to go to the bathroom, or wakes up to come looking for his wife should she not be in bed with him, he says he is tired alot and needs his sleep, that is why we never have had sex in the middle of the night unless i come to bed and initiate it. It doesnt even happen on the weekends when he doesnt have to get up to go to work. btw...we have been married for almost 4yrs.We have only made love 3 times in the afternoon, and twice in the morning. and i had to talk him into quickies, says he doesnt like them cuz he wants to let the feeling last as long as he can? i told him well if we had more it wouldnt b an issue.as long as i go to bed with him at 10pm everynight then he is pefectly happy but when i do he rarely initates anything his idea of romance is rolling over and sticking his thumb up my ..?
2007-03-02
21:15:32
·
14 answers
·
asked by
jane d
1
in
Marriage & Divorce