I just recently moved into a shared apartment a week & 1/2 ago, & I was depressed & sick with a bad cold & bronchitis, & I couldn't enter or leave my bedroom without her barging in it, ininvited, telling me I need to clean it, & I have too much clutter. She takes it upon herself to start cleaning it, & I organize my room the way it makes ME happy, not others. Then, she demands an answer for why my room is not cleaned, & I tell her that it's because I've been very depressed & ill. She says, "Don't give me that excuse! When I'm depressed or sick that makes me clean up more." Well, that's her. I don't owe her an answer. She also put me under the impression that she was going to report me if my room wasn't clean. It's clean now. We each have our own room with our own lease. When I'm sick or depressed, I feel immoble & can't do much. By her invading my privacy, she was breaking the lease rules. The landlord understands if I'm too depressed to clean up b/c these are apts. for mentally ill.
2007-02-12
04:15:13
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