Here's one for you all! My BF of 4 months and I are both born-again Christians. (He's been saved for many years, I am a newbie. We originally vowed not to sleep together before marriage, but like many before us...temptation struck, repeatedly. However, at his insistance we are giving it another try. Now we have been able to abstain for over a month, but I am really torn up about it. I know that this decision is pleasing to God, but I am feeling really insecure about our relationship because of it. In every other relationship I have been in, when we stopped sleeping together it was the "beginning of the end". Plus, we aren't even passionately kissing any more. I don't know how to approach the subject without sounding like a big horn-ball. But, it is taking over my brain! Should I ask him about this? How do I know if he is losing interest in me romantically or truly taking the moral high-ground?
2007-02-06
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