My wife has a dominating personality just like yours. She always likes the feeling of control and she’s always complaining about this or that (I think it’s her way to feel comfortable in the relationship. The more control and dominating she feels the better off she is). One problem this doesn’t work all the time with me. I have to say that I give in a lot because I know this is how she is but every once in awhile I throw her a curve ball and take over and it drives her nuts. Like for instance, last night she just kept complaining about how I do this or that and it bugs her so this morning I said I tell you what, why don’t you give me your wedding rings and be unmarried today and find someone that you don’t complain about so much and when you’re proud to where these again, you can have them back. Boy did she get mad that she lost control and threatened this and that but I took charge and I do that every once in awhile. Now she’s angrier than a hornet getting shook up in a jar. So all you dominating women out there if your husband did things like this to get you to listen to him, would you respect him after he stood up to you even though you hate losing that control? It seems that after she calms down, she loves me more.
2007-01-31
01:41:52
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golf4everdude
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Marriage & Divorce