I have considered buying her a new ring for our 15th anniversary, but our sex life has been in the dumps for the past 4 years. When we do have sex; at most 1-2 a month it's really nice. We know each other inside and out and satisfying the others needs is not the problem. The problem is her desire. I've tried everything that I know to do and then some. I do 90% of the house work, I tend to our 4 children and do all the cooking. Plus I work. I should be the one with no sex drive. Her's is gone and mine is higher than ever and has always been that way. There is no affection, kissing, or passion from her. except from the occassional kiss on the cheek. I don't want get divorced, but I'm tired of being lonely in a one sided marriage. It should'nt be this way. I thought about renewing our vows and buying her a new ring as a new start. What am I missing or not doing to get the love and affection a marriage needs? Is it time to move on, or should I just accept a loveless marriage?
2007-01-14
03:15:38
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trick26
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