I'm in a relationship for 4 years. Lived together for 3. We've been through a lot (illness, job loss, no money, etc) but overcame it all. My girlfriend is constantly afraid that I am going to leave her because she's broke, or gained weight, or thinks she isn't as fun as she used to be, or says she is a failure because she doesnt have money to finish college. I constantly tell her no, but she will ball on a regular basis because she puts thoughts in her head. I don't do anything to give her these thoughts. I try to help if anything. I try to help her with her financially, school stuff, I try to eat healthy myself and go to the gym in attempt to get her to do the same. I've literally taken care of and supported her for 3 years. I try to convince her to go out and hang out with her friends and just have fun, but she won't. Her self esteem is pitifully low. Its frustrating. By not wanting to push me away, she pushes me away. I have no intention of going anywhere, but I need help
2006-12-22
18:17:57
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