All categories - 15 December 2006

Hi, I've been married to my wife for 20 yrs now. We've had a lack luster sex life all our marriage. However, I've gotten used to it and made up for the lack with porn. No cyber or anything, just pictures and stories to masterbate. Anyway, my wife has caught me on several occassions and she says because of that she's fallen out of love with me. I think she still loves me, but doesn't respect or like me. She was abused when she was younger that's part of the problem, I've adapted to it and that's one of the reason our sex is not so great. Well she's changed a lot in the last couple of years, I've been supporting her through school and she's become indepedent. She's also lost about 60 pounds and looks about 10 years younger then she is now. I don't know what to do, like I said I still love her and would like to keep being married. She seems upset when we talk divorce, but we haven't been togethor in over a year, even after I came back from Afghanistan. What do you think?

2006-12-15 20:42:30 · 4 answers · asked by MB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

At this point I'm pretty confident she likes me. She's flirty but I definitely notice there's more of a thing with me compared to the other dudes in the office. I like her a lot too. The only problem is our office is small. Really small. I'm worried that if I pursue something with her, the heavy interaction at work will mess things up and cause a lot of awckardness which I hate.

I'm at a point in my life where I'm figuring a lot of things out, and I'm doing a lot for myself. I actually don't want to date anyone seriously right now. The thought of having to see someone sometimes 10 hours a day and then see them more is a bit troublesome.

This is not the first time I've asked about this. The last time I wasn't so sure I wanted to pursue something, but now I'm leaning towards it. I'm leaning towards doing something because I'm going to get another job by mid-next year. I'm willing to take some risks. My gut is telling me the time to act is now. What do you all think?

2006-12-15 20:42:28 · 17 answers · asked by acvader 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-15 20:42:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Biology

Gosh, that sounds very cold, doesn't it?!

Long story short.....he is 51, I am 40. We've lived together six months. We met online.

From the beginning....when he moved in....he has not been frisky, at all. Maybe, once every two weeks. He says that he loves me, he says that he is attracted to me. He enjoys watching naughty movies, etc.

Yet, he almost never wants to have sex. I just don't understand. Something just isn't right.

I was married for 18 yrs. and basically had no sex life, then. I don't want to end up in that situation, again.

What am I to do? I have discussed this with him 3-4 times. He says he understands, etc. Yet, nothing ever changes.

2006-12-15 20:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know any new destinations that SriLankan Airlines will be flying to in 2007? I'm based in Sri Lanka, and SriLankan Airlines is usually my choice airline... :)

2006-12-15 20:41:41 · 1 answers · asked by Guy_33 1 in Other - Destinations

2006-12-15 20:41:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Society & Culture

I need a hardcore one. Something that can arrange my straight, circular, and massive amount of dpn's by size (and my needles range from 000 to 10.5, as I'm primarily a sock and lace knitter), and is well-organized and makes it easy to access everything. Any suggestions? (Because the coffee tin they're currently in isn't *quite* doing it.)

2006-12-15 20:41:08 · 4 answers · asked by angk 6 in Hobbies & Crafts

What song is A.F.I singing in this vid?

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2006-12-15 20:41:04 · 2 answers · asked by jack 1 in Music

dont want in cd's and cassettes... i want to hear online. tell me how? do u know any sites name?

2006-12-15 20:40:48 · 7 answers · asked by mam 2 in Music

they have a drawstring around the hips and are sort of flared a bit at the bottom? The sleves are usually singlet type or shoestring? I want to get one for my daughter but i am unsure how to ebay search them. They are worn over pants not skirts as they are quite long.??

2006-12-15 20:40:47 · 6 answers · asked by blahblahblah 5 in Fashion & Accessories

2006-12-15 20:40:41 · 23 answers · asked by g o l d e e 3 in Astronomy & Space

2006-12-15 20:40:38 · 5 answers · asked by dian_sinta 1 in Languages

... or Indian Apple, as they are called in some places.

I have not had one since I was a kid. We used to break it open, chew the insides, swallow the juice and spit out the pulp.

2006-12-15 20:40:32 · 8 answers · asked by Chris C 5 in Other - Food & Drink

JEALOUS?

2006-12-15 20:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by DIOGENES 3 in FIFA World Cup (TM)

me and my boyfriend just fought from 11pm-400am. we made up though which is good..he promised to change for the sake of me and the baby. i hope this is it. i'm tired of fighting.

i'm 5 weeks and 6 days pregnant and i find it very hard to eat. i don't throw up nor do i have nauseau. i just don't want to eat anything. i work at a restaurant and i can eat anything i want but i just feel like i'll do i'll be sick. i have to force my self to eat. i have no cravings or anything. just food aversions to pretty much...everything. anyone else have that in early pregnancy?

2006-12-15 20:39:51 · 6 answers · asked by nad b 1 in Pregnancy

2006-12-15 20:39:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Hobbies & Crafts

2006-12-15 20:39:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2006-12-15 20:39:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Diet & Fitness

Teenage girl who is tall like 6"2, is there a store that sells clothes for tall people.

2006-12-15 20:39:25 · 2 answers · asked by ? 6 in Fashion & Accessories

Lou Dobbs on Cnn
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Hannity and Colmes
Heraldo Rivera

2006-12-15 20:39:03 · 4 answers · asked by Sassy 3 in Media & Journalism

If we stopped buying "cut" Christmas trees and started buying live ones, would it slow down global warming? Getting fake ones wouldn't help because it would increase plastic production creating more air pollution. But what if people decided to buy live trees and replant them? Wouldn't it make some bit of difference?

2006-12-15 20:38:56 · 4 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Environment

ok so me n my ex started talkin again after 2 months of not talkin.i love hi mso much n he says he loves me.we hav been doing the friends wit benefits thing n im just so bothered bout it i want him so bad.ok so last nite i saw him n i txted him wen i got home n i never got a txt bak or a goodnite call which he usually does.i understand tho but then dis mornin i sent him a txt n i never got nuthin but then he called @ midnite 24 hrs later.he asked me y i didnt IM him n i asked y didnt u txt me.he sed he left his fone @ home but i kno he had it all morning til 1pm.he cud have jsut sed hello but he sed that he dont like txtin on his fone so i suggested dat we dont txt no more n jsut talk @ nite n he was jus like i didnt call u for drama n he was so mean to me like yellin n everythign n the things he sed were so rude.we hung up on bad terms.i dunno wat to do shud i contact him or wait 4 him? im so sad cuz i love him so much but he was so mean today its like i cant tell him how i feel.

2006-12-15 20:38:52 · 14 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

slowing down with age ? This morning I dropped 10pence and it hit the floor, I used to be able to bend down fast enough for it to hit me on the back of the head. Ah well that's age for you !!!!!!!

2006-12-15 20:38:48 · 16 answers · asked by Shredder 6 in Jokes & Riddles

2006-12-15 20:38:44 · 5 answers · asked by blu 1 in Other - Holidays

It is a Bouvier des Flanders. I've been told at six months, but also been advised that I should wait until 2 years - so not to influence the dog's normal development.

2006-12-15 20:38:28 · 12 answers · asked by ASCape 1 in Dogs

2006-12-15 20:38:26 · 6 answers · asked by hankygagher 2 in Christmas

2006-12-15 20:38:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cleaning & Laundry

why are you in this area of Yahoo!Answers? Why do you post your opinion voicing "you should be ashamed of yourself" and you're against same sex marraige but you are not a homophobe every chance you can? Why? Why take your time to comment on something that obviously doesn't affect you in any form or fashion... consistently? I'm just curious, is all. Please, answer.

2006-12-15 20:37:56 · 13 answers · asked by 2s2 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Lou Dobbs on Cnn
Bill O'Reilly on Cnn
Hannity and Colmes
Heraldo Rivera

2006-12-15 20:37:53 · 2 answers · asked by Sassy 3 in Media & Journalism

Am I being only for the spare time?!!!

2006-12-15 20:37:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys