My husband has had an addiction to ponography since very young. He states that he has greatly improved - from 4 to 5 times a day to once a month. I found out about his addiction after we got married. I not too long ago found out that on one of his most recent business trips, he masturbated while looking at ponography on the Internet. I asked him why he masturbated. He told me that the women turn him on.
I am experiencing a wide array of emotions including: confusion, anger, sexual frustration, sadness, shock, etc. I love my husband very much; however, his addiction really bothers me. I have told him that it hurts me a great deal, also him and our marriage whenever he looks at other naked females on the Internet and masturbates. I have also told him to get help and talk to his accountability partner. He stated that he would get help but has not yet.
I have also asked him why he masturbates to other naked women on the Internet. His answer is that I am not there.
Help!!!!
2006-12-11
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