I have been remarried for six years now and share joint custody of two children (12 and 10) with my ex. We are on good terms and have agreed this coming summer (finally!) that it is alright if I move out of state. My current husband has asked for years to move back to his home state. It will be better financially for us all, not to mention other positive factors associated with the move. I have told the kids that they can pick if they want to come or not, since they are older. My 12 yr old has decided to stay here, and the 10 yr old wants to come with. I have a good relationship with both children. I also have two young children with the new husband. My question is this. When we move in the summer and my 12 yr old stays here, will she feel like I've abandoned her? Should I wait another year? (It's been 3 years already) Her father is good to her and I'm not worried that she won't be taken care of but I will miss her terribly, is it wrong to leave her here if that's what she wants??
2006-12-10
22:18:37
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