I have been with my boy for four years. He proposed last night, and I said no, cause I needed more time to think about it.
The thing is, before I started dating my boyfriend, I was in love/lust with another guy named Jake. I knew him two years before my boyfriend. He is so amazing in every single way, but due to a dumb decision on my part I went for my boyfriend instead. Now I love my boyfriend, I want to be with him a long time. But, I talk to Jake again, and I regret ever leaving him. He wants us to hang out, but it's going to take a lot of restraint, even though we're friends still.
Plus, I have sex dreams about him every night for the past week... it does not help and I wake up sad. I love both, but I NEED to stay with my boyfriend. My question is. How do I forget about Jake? We're friends so I would hate to stop talking to him altogether. I stopped talking to him for 3 days and it helped but I missed him as a friend
2006-10-03
21:59:25
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