I am studying in europe for four months and am a month in, my girlfriend kinda freaked out before I left but "came to her senses" and actually ended up flying out to meet my parents before I left, now she won't even respond to my email, it has been 4 days and up to then we would communicate 2 or more times a day through myspace email skype, while my mind is already in a fragile state of uncertainty because of the study abroad thing I was kinda using our relationship as a pillar of strength, I don't have the emotional capacity to deal with the uncertainty of my life (here) and her, but she gave me no real sign that this was her thought I don't know I am confussed any advice would be great
2006-10-03 21:57:51 · 3 answers · asked by ninja cat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont lose your heart. whatever happens its all for the good. now see this as a test to your relationship. at times of stress the best human qualities tends to come out. and for good or bad at the end of these four months you will find out how strong you are about your gf and vice versa. dont get freaked out..
jus talk to your gf about ur lifestyle..and keep her in the loop. she might be paranoid that you might leave her. give her the assurance. pacify her. ..i am sure it will workout.
all the best
2006-10-03 22:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by azimuth_nadir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wudn't do you any gud to think of the whys...Just think that she must be busy or stuck and give her time to reply. Ur parents also a pillar of strength. You can always give her a call.
2006-10-04 05:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on contacting her & reasure her that all is well. Don't give till you have talked!
2006-10-04 05:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋