I am the youngest child in a family with four siblings. I'm having the hardest time reclaiming my self-esteem and inner power. I feel like my family doesn't respect my time and privacy. Nobody cares if I have a life (studying, going out, etc) or have a boyfriend because they constantly interrupt me or expect I give up what I have to do for them. If I say no, I feel the guilt trip coming. I'm pegged as the shy one, the one who never speaks up, etc. They have been reinforcing this image in my life the longest time. I feel like my power is being drained. I'm hoping to move out soon--way overdue (I'm 33 yrs old), but will it really change things? What is a good remedy to show my family once and for all--I'm not a kid! I can be a powerful person too!
2006-09-14
13:37:59
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sugar1973
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