We have been married 15 years, have two kids, ages 14 (sophomore) and 11 (6 grade). I feel she should at least take some classes to get some skills that would pay better than what she could do now. I also feel it is important for her to work enough to qualify for social security. I feel like she will look to me for all her support for the rest of her life. I do not believe this is right. We have some decent savings, which she thinks is a lot but I do not. I also feel she knows I stand to inherit a good amount and she has concluded she does not have to go back to work. This really upsets me, because that money, if it ever arrives, is not hers. I just feel she has spare time and should use it to make some money, or acquire skills, which would help us. She does not even know how to use e-mail. So there's a lot she could and needs to learn. She insists all her time be there for the kids. But the kids are in school. I feel its time to start a transition. What can I do?
2006-09-07
14:31:03
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