I havent talked to her for a while, but her birthday is comin up on monday, should I call her. I really like her, but i dont know how she will react. pls help!
2006-09-07 14:31:55 · 38 answers · asked by Sancho... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What should i say
2006-09-07 14:34:02 · update #1
Call her up. If you are her friend then she will be happy to hear from you especially if you have not talked in a while. Just tell her this: "Hey what's up? It's me SDMexican1, and well I just wanted to tell you that a friend never forgets another friends birthday especially if he's thinking of you and well I want to wish you the best to come and wish you a Happy Birthday. May all your Birthday Wishes come true. I know we haven't talked in a while, but I remember you and I know you remember me. So what's new and how do you feel being a year older? Or say something you two have in common. Trust me it won't be hard to start a convo with someone you use to talk to a lot. It will be easy when you call. Especially if you start sharing memories of each other. That would make it fun and more interesting. Also it would make it easier to talk to her. Good luck and take care. Hope this gave you an idea or at least helped out.
Ciao~
2006-09-07 14:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how long it's been since you called her and what the last thing you said to her was. I mean, if you haven't called her in a year or a few months because you told her you found someone else, no I wouldn't call her. But if you havent called her in a couple of weeks or a month because you have been busy and your last conversation was good, then yes, call her and explain to her the situation. Like I said, it all depends on the situation between the two of you.
2006-09-07 14:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Billys girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't always predict how other people will react to anything, and you sure can't control it, so let me ask you this -- if she were to react badly, would you tell yourself, "Hey, at least I tried," or "THIS IS AWFUL! I'M SO MISERABLE!" ?
All you can control is what you do. If you would rather be able to tell yourself that you tried, then call. Don't put too much pressure on you, or on her - just call and wish her a happy birthday, and be ready to leave it at that. If she seems to be happy to hear from you, you can always go on from there.
2006-09-07 15:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your calling her to wish her a happy birthday than do it, but do not call her looking for a relationship. build that up gradually!
im not going to tell you what to say just speak from the heart you know how you feel about her!
2006-09-07 14:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by A_lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of are you guys just friends or are you ex's? But If you are trying to impress her and get with her on a good note then you should def. call her so she knows that you are thinking about her and want to keep in touch or even make more then what you guys are now.
2006-09-07 14:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her maybe it would start a relationship. If she denies you it's not the end of the world. There are tons of other fish in the sea. Nothing could go wrong! Good luck!
2006-09-07 14:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by animal_luver313 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should!! She will think you really care for her!! She think of you more as a friend!! Maybe even a girlfrind! Maybe ask her to hang out some time. That way she feels that you are willing to do whatever it takes to be in touch!!
2006-09-07 14:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by basketball_babe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and wish her Happy Birthday...and then take it from there
Good Luck!
2006-09-08 12:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go ahead and call..don't seem desperate, but make it seem like you called to see how she was doing. You just might be surprised at how she will react.
2006-09-07 14:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ultimate Diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes say hi i noticed your b-day was comming up and i thought i would call and wish you a happy birthday and let you know i was thinking about you
2006-09-07 14:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by cwgrlmeiniowa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋