There is this girl who use to be my best friend and when I was going out with My ex she would talk to him and then we broke up and now since school started back up she is always with him and he is with her but they are supposably JUST FRIENDS and it makes me mad becuase I guess I get jealous which I know sounds really stupid. And he treats me like crap now and he's not hiself when everyone else is around. On a spiritual note what should I do beisdes just let it get to me becasue I know that .. that is satin getting to me and making it bother me!
2006-09-07 14:32:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Here's a religous answer for you. I would not call it satan compared to jealousy. I am not saying that you are jealous, but I am also not saying that you aren't. On a religous answer, even jehova said he was a jealous GOD. But who knows?
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Now onto the real answer. She was far from being in the right hanging out with your ex. I thought there was a code book that was never written that has these rules.
Rule # 46 of the friendship handbook: Do not go out with your ex without thier consent.
This rule is a classic, but you never said they were a couple. Only friends. but that does not mean I am saying she has the right to hang out with him knowing that he was your ex. Obviously there would be some kind of rage that would come from you. But maybe she likes him and was afraid to ask you permission. And if that be the case she should still ask because that could be a friendship breaker. I am a guy and we are some cocky mutha f*ckers. Pardon my french. Don't take this as he is treating me like crap, but take it as he has a major ego problem. Which most of us do. And he is not really thinking of your fealings when it comes to his. The EGO is a powerfull force. Maybe that is satan's playground. Man, I have to atone for some of the things said here. OK, done. Take care love!
2006-09-07 14:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mitchell B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Besides just letting it go, which you have stated you know already. I would say separate yourself from them, Ignore them, find other friends or ways to occupy you. On a spiritual note you don't just need to "not let it get to you", but you need to forgive them for what they have done, in the same way you would wish for someone else to forgive you for something you might have done. And most importantly, follow a lesson my mother taught me about such people. KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS always respond kindly , always smile , tell them they look great together and you hope they get married. let them know you are so glad they found each other, etc.... things like this will get under their skin as well as irritate "Satan" because he doesn't want you to turn the other cheek, he wants you to be irked (IE. irritated , mad and so forth) and lose your self composure so that he can find his way into your heart and push GOD out. this eliminates the drama and the stress and after a while can be quite entertaining. think of it as a game where you have just changed the rules and are using cheat codes to win. I hope this helps , as i am not usually good at this kind of advice but your question peaked my interest.
2006-09-07 14:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by starrborrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
historic religions did the most acceptable artwork in compiling (no longer inventing) the little truisms of human interplay, which contain the thanks to administration individuals ("do unto others" awareness), and so on. (all that stuff fairly got here from jap religions, no longer the Bible). i like how the most historic religions go away others on my own. they are in truth very exciting and encourage questions by using humility and respectful nature of no longer pushing it on others. So large united statesto Buddhism, Hinduism, Judaism and some others. playstation . There are solid issues to assert even about the gov't. in case you do not believe me, attempt taking a visit in the time of state with out utilising any roads.
2016-11-06 21:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right a religous question.
Isnt satin a type of cloth.
2006-09-07 14:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Elijah99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Who is Satin?
2. You broke up, why do you still care?
2006-09-07 14:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn the other cheek. Try to ignore it and if you can`t then talk to your friend about it. Don`t tell her stop being friends with him or anything, but maybe she can get him to stop treating you like crap.
Hope that helps.
2006-09-07 14:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let satin bother you, go with 100% cotton instead.
2006-09-07 15:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the other cheek.shake the dust off your feet. walk away proud and don't look back. Sounds to me like they are both jerks trying to hurt you,don't let them He is not worth it
2006-09-07 14:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy to ignore hurtful actions from someone for whom you once had deep feelings. Just keep trying.
2006-09-07 14:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Tom♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them be friends. Be happy for them. Their are many men in this world and you cant have them all. Everyone has someone for them, I wish you luck in your quest.
2006-09-07 14:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Superman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋