I was in what seemed to me a loveless relationship for 25yrs. And I say relationship because we've never married. But we had 4 kids during that time, 2 are already grown, 1 is about to graduate high school next year and the last is 12yrs. old. For the past 20yrs. he hasn't treated me like the woman he fell in love with. He doesn't hug me, he doesn't kiss me unless I kiss or hug him first, he doesn't hold my hand or nothing. He won't even tell me he loves me unless I say it first. We don't even talk to each other. The only time he tries to talk to me is when he wants me to do something for him, and thats all the time. And at first I didn't mind doing things for him because I loved him and I know God wanted me to do those things for him because he was my man. But he treats me like I was his personal servant. So much that our kids started treating me the same way. To the point where I started feeling depressed and all used up. So I took off, moved across the country and left everybody.
2006-09-04
20:23:29
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sweetcaliluvr
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Marriage & Divorce