About a year ago, a friend, who I don't know that well, asked me to be her bridesmaid. She's is only 19 and since being with her partner she has fallen out with all her friends. He is a nasty piece of work and she just can't see it. He hasn't worked since she's been with him and she pays for everything, and he refuses to lift a finger at home.
The planning of the wedding has been left with me as she had no idea what she was doing, and I've really tried my best, but she's never confirmed anything or paid the deposits, so the whole day is turning into a sham. To top it all, she's never showed any sign of being grateful for the help I've given her.
I think she's too young and shouldn't be marrying the guy. Her family have no idea what he's like as she lies all the time to make their relationship look good.
I have considered a number of times to say something, but could never find the right thing to say. Should I just continue tomorrow as support, or should I say something?
2006-08-24
23:22:24
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Emily
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Marriage & Divorce